hey there,
My name is Stacey and i m 25 yrs older and my Boyfriend is 23 yrs. I m Indian and he is Aussie. I have been with him about 3.5 yrs and still with him. I still love him, we have broken up so many times and still together.
I came to Australia 6.5 yrs ago and when i came here i know i had to start all over again, Making friends, getting use to people around me etc. My parents having a hardcore Indian background, i know it would be even harder to make friends and get use to things around me. i was a university students. My parents wanted me to go to university come home straight clean the house and so on. Never let me go out in the night and was always told what to do and when to do and to top it up they never appreciated what i did for them. Always use to call me names, hit me for stupid reason. My life was a living hell at home. So when i got my citizenship, i decide to live home. tell then i had lost it because when you stop using your brains you can't decide what is right and wrong...but i knew one thing that i desperately want is my freedom to breath.
After few months i got it. I made a friend how helped me out. She argued with my parents for me that when i knew that people do care. Few months later down the track i met a guy named Trent(Indian). He showed me he cared loved me so we moved out. He made me take a loan of 15000 which i did cause for a girl like me it was easy,all i wanted was someone in my life i din want to be alone. Few weeks later he left me cause he had got someone else pregnant. It was so so so hard to move on..because i know i was alone. I use to drive like crazy looking for him. I use to go to his place and sit in my car thinking thinking and then go home. Few weeks later i met another guy at a car repair shop. when i went to pick my car up. His dad came up to me and asked me,"Were you driving at the freeway around 9:30pm late night". I said,"yes" then he was like my son saw you and he started talk to me and asked me what do you do? etc. When i started to leave his dad asked me,"can i have your number, so can go out with my Son" and i told him," Shouldn't your son ask me for it" and he told me he is gone all shy about it. I gave my number to his Dad. His name was Danny(Aussie),he started calling me and i thought i should give it a go and so i did.
He started coming to my place and before i knew it we were in relationship.He had heaps of mates but in start of my relationship with him, he never wanted to see his mates, he just wanted to be with me but i wanted to met his mates so i could communicate and finally he did. He was the best thing that happened to me. My life was perfect but as you know nothing last for long. He started pushing me behind and only wanted his mates. I do so much for him but it's never enough for him. He put the house in his parents name cause he doesn't trust me, i don't care cause i know i will never leave him. Whatever he does, he know deep within his heart that i won't leave him. I m confused know cause there was a time i leave my house cause i wanted my freedom and know when i have it i don't want it. It could be cause i don't have mates. My life sucks!!!!!!!!
